One story of immigration

10 years ago, I packed everything I had in a green suitcase, and said goodbye to everyone I loved to move to the most unknown country to me, a place that I call “home” now. I remember stepping down from the plane nervously, with a separation anxiety, like a child who was lost, like someone who was exiled and had no chance of going back. I was single, with no friends or relatives living here. The absolute solitude changes you forever. In the loneliness you initially lose yourself, then you discover your true self and make peace with who you are. You learn to adapt and focus on resemblance in people rather than their differences. You learn to live a normal life in a place that once you were an alien.
This is an endless journey. A journey with no destination. An emotional rollercoaster of homesickness, the excitement of an adventure, the joy of accomplishments, a dream that has come true, the fear of losing your loved ones back home, the struggle of handling it all by yourself…Then comes a new phase, the feeling of not belonging anywhere, even though now you have two places to call home. You’ve left your roots back in your original country, while your branches have grown tall and flourished in your new country. In your mind, however, you live somewhere in between, in suspense.
Immigration is an extraordinary experience, a journey like nothing else, you shed your skin off in pain and grow bigger and stronger with joy. My life has been a blessing, I’m grateful for my supportive family, the lessons I’ve learned and all the great people I’ve met during this journey.

Thank you Australia for being the best “home away from home”.

Breaking through language barrier: 7 practical steps

As mentioned in a previous post, language barrier is one of the most frustrating challenges for immigrants. However, breaking through this hurdle is achievable in a short period of time, if you believe in yourself and acknowledge there is no limitation to human capabilities. Below is a list of 7 practical steps to help you with overcoming language barriers.

1. Don’t isolate yourself

The first and most important step is to not separate yourself from your new society, just because you don’t understand their language. It might be more convenient to live in a bubble and surround yourself with people, who speak your native language. That’s actually one of the biggest mistakes many immigrants make, as delaying learning the language will only bring you disadvantage and disappointment. You have to blend in, integrate, and interact with the community as much as you can, to be able to achieve your greatest dreams in your new home. Don’t be shy and embarrassed if you can’t communicate clearly yet. Just be persistent, invest in yourself and be determined to learn the language. Start communicating with everyone, and don’t worry about what others may think about your language proficiency. With a little bit of persistence you will get better and better every day.

2. Find out about free language support programs

Don’t get disappointed if for any reason you can’t afford paying for language classes. In many countries, community support organisations, such as churches, mosques, libraries, community centres, etc.  provide free language and conversation classes for refugees and new immigrants. Make the effort to find out about what is on offer in your area, and ensure you regularly attend the classes.

3. Establish a support network

Practising the language with other people like you can be fun and rewarding. Try to get to know the people in your neighbourhood or language classes, who would love to share their learning experience with others. Building a network of language learners gives everyone in the group, a huge motivator to interact with others and practice speaking and hearing the language.  This would be more efficient if the members in your group, don’t  speak your native language. This will enforce everyone to use the second language to communicate.

4. Watch kids programs on TV

This might sound silly, but watching kids programs is among the most efficient ways of learning a new language for beginners. If you are still struggling with differentiating the words just by listening, turn on the subtitles so you can read the words while they are being spoken. Kids programs are usually designed to improve and develop children’s linguistic skills. This gives you a great opportunity to expose yourself to a fun learning platform. After all, if you have kids, you have to watch them anyway, so try to make the most out of your screen time 🙂

5. Don’t be afraid to initiate a conversation

You have to break through your fears to become comfortable with the new language. Don’t be afraid of starting a conversation with strangers in a park or bus stop or people in your workplace or neighbourhood. They would usually ask you to repeat yourself if they don’t understand you, and you can always ask for clarification if you don’t understand something. Especially if you live in multicultural societies like Canada or Australia, people are aware of language limitations and different accents and they won’t get offended if you don’t speak your language confidently yet.

6. Ask for interpreter

If you need any critical support such as medical or legal services, be aware of your rights and ask for an interpreter. In most countries, government organisations like public hospitals, borders custom services, courts, immigration departments, police stations etc., provide free interpretation services for people who don’t speak the official language of the country. Not being able to communicate clearly, when you need medical assistance or dealing with immigration authorities to discuss your visa status, can have negative consequences on your well being and the future of yourself and your family. So, don’t take the risk and learn the word “Interpreter” in the most spoken language in your new country and ask for interpretation services.

7. Set a deadline for yourself

Last but not least, set a definitive time-frame for yourself  to reach a comfortable level with the language you are trying to learn (e.g. 6 months, 1 year). Learning a second language is an ongoing process and for most people it takes up to 10 years to develop advanced fluency. However, you need to commit to a deadline to be efficient in getting to a comfortable level, that enables you to communicate and express yourself clearly.  After that, the key to developing proficiency is persistence and grasping every opportunity to improve your linguistic and communication skills.

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Top 5 challenges faced by Immigrants


No matter whether you are planning for immigration or you are already an immigrant, it’s essential to gather as much information as you can, to understand the potential challenges you may face. Acknowledging there would be barriers in your way, is the first step in being a successful immigrants. In this article, we will look at some of those challenges and later, in a series of articles we will look at some of the solutions to tackle them.

  1. Language Problem

It is no surprise that the greatest barrier to integration into the host country is low language proficiency. Your ability in expressing your thoughts and needs, affects every aspects of your life. Language is a key communication indicator, which has a big impact on how others assess your general proficiency. Without a sufficient knowledge of official language in your host country, all your technical skills, qualifications and, experiences could be underestimated.

2. Unrealistic expectations

To many immigrants, the foreign countries are the “land of prosperity and wealth for all”. Although prosperity may be more attainable in a developed country, you need to be aware that you, and ONLY you, must work hard to achieve your dreams. You may have heard of welfare and unemployment support systems in some countries, however, be aware not to develop unrealistic expectations. It’s wrong to assume that your presence in the host country means entitlement to its benefits. In most cases, the benefits are only available to citizens and permanent residency visa holders (or green card holders). Nevertheless, in some countries legitimate refugees are usually eligible for a limited financial support.

3. Finding an adequate job

Quite often, not all your credentials and work experiences are recognised in the host country. Lack of local work experience accompanied by language barrier, makes it incredibly hard to break through this obstacle. This is especially frustrating for well-educated immigrants, who had higher level positions back home and, struggle to find the same jobs in their new country. This can impose financial constraints to the immigrant families, especially if they don’t have any investment or financial support back home.

4. Psychological issues

Immigrants face varied mental health challenges. Not having the support of family and friends, post-traumatic stress for refugees, isolation, loneliness and adapting to life in a country with different values, can cause depression and other mental health issues for immigrants.

5. Discrimination and racism

In the current anti-immigrant climate, many immigrants are facing negative stereotypes in the host communities. This is a key obstacle to the full integration of immigrants into their new country. Even skilled immigrants are facing mistrust and discrimination in the job market because of their race, skin color, language skills and their religion. For example, researchers in Australia and Canada have found evidence of substantial discrimination against applicants with foreign names, especially asian and middle-eastern names.

The Story of Immigration

Immigration is an emotional journey. Leaving your roots behind, and letting your branches grow and bloom in another land is a challenging task.

People have different reasons for immigration. Some are forced to leave their homeland due to conflict or violence, poverty, education, political turmoil, or simply in search of a better life. There is always someone telling you, you are making a mistake, that the risk doesn’t worth it, that settling in a new country is tough and many immigrants struggle for years to establish themselves in the new environment.

Yes, that’s true, but you never expected it to be easy, you are up for a new challenge and nothing can stop you from achieving your goal. All you need to do is to prepare yourself for the obstacles that life in a foreign country would cast on you. You need to teach yourself how to live successfully in your new environment. You need to know the barriers, the challenges, and the ways to overcome them.

You can either choose to be defeated by the obstacles and become a second-class citizen in the host country, or you can rise up to your full potentials and live the life you dreamed about, when you departed from your home land.

It doesn’t matter whether you are a refuge or a skilled immigrant, you are already ahead of lots of people, who never had the courage to leave their comfort zone. If you are a refugee, fleeing violence, conflict, and poverty, your resistance has paid off and against all odds, you have made it to a safe land now. That resistance, the courage to overcome unimaginable barriers that you have faced, will always work in your advantage as long as you trust the strength built up in you.

In America for example, statistics show that you are more likely to be successful if you are born aboard. YES, this is absolutely true, the wisdom and courage you have built up over the years living a challenging life, is your most valuable asset, which will guide you through the most resilient obstacles in your life.